tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-20757662.post2266987144580564852..comments2023-08-10T07:42:08.316-05:00Comments on Caring for Bear: Four Months (but who's counting?)Heatherhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/03412373474762289674noreply@blogger.comBlogger1125tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-20757662.post-71788385987852820362007-11-03T13:17:00.000-05:002007-11-03T13:17:00.000-05:00Ahhh...the honeymoon is over and what to do now? W...Ahhh...the honeymoon is over and what to do now? When Dion and I first got married (this will sound odd), we played a lot of board games, card games, etc. Much more than we do now, and I miss that somewhat, but who has time? So much energy is put on a wedding, that everything else gets put on hold. Take those things off hold and do stuff together. Remember too, that there doesn't have to be constant conversation. In fact, there have been times when we both sat on the couch reading our own book. Silence is not always bad.<BR/><BR/>As far as the car thing goes, you should work as a team to pick one out, even if you are the primary driver. Both our cars are in both our names, but he drives one for the most part and I drive the other. Remember that a marriage isn't 50-50. If you do that you are only giving half of yourself. It should be 100-100, with the knowledge that one will excell in some areas the other doesn't and vice versa. You'll be ok, you just have to find your grove as a married couple. <BR/><BR/>I think now a days couples take the easy route and call it quits when the going gets rough. Marriage is like having another full time job that has to be tended to, so it too can grow.Sue Flaskahttps://www.blogger.com/profile/07538426815869908623noreply@blogger.com